

January 2011 by Penguin
Audiobook-5 Hours 50 min
Narrated by Cassandra Campbell
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In Fort Hood housing, like all army housing, you get used to hearing through the walls... You learn too much. And you learn to move quietly through your own small domain. You also know when the men are gone. No more boots stomping above, no more football games turned up too high, and, best of all, no more front doors slamming before dawn as they trudge out for their early formation, sneakers on metal stairs, cars starting, shouts to the windows above to throw them down their gloves on cold desert mornings. Babies still cry, telephones ring, Saturday morning cartoons screech, but without the men, there is a sense of muted silence, a sense of muted life.
There is an army of women waiting for their men to return in Fort Hood, Texas. Through a series of loosely interconnected stories, Siobhan Fallon takes readers onto the base, inside the homes, into the marriages and families-intimate places not seen in newspaper articles or politicians' speeches. When you leave Fort Hood, the sign above the gate warns, You've Survived the War, Now Survive the Homecoming. It is eerily prescient.
Review
Amazing!
I think what surprises me most about this collection of short story’s on military life, was how wonderfully Fallon captures the military wife’s heart in all different aspects of living with a soldier. Each story presents a military couple or family who is facing the heartbreaking, the deployments, a death, a cheating spouse, an out of control child and military life in general. The author mainly focuses on husband and wife relationships, there are a few story's outside of the relationship angle but the real message from each story are the effects of war and deployments. Another great surprise was actually reading a book about soldiers, the military and the Iraq war without the political aspects to it. I liked that there was no president bashing or political party bashing, it was just from a place of what the military inside looks like. Now of course some of these stories like Leave, which is about a soldier on leave from Iraq, who breaks into his house and hides in the basement for a week trying to catch his wife cheating- display an extreme case of human behavior. For the most part though Fallon gives readers tiny glimpses into the vast majority yet similar emotions that pass in a soldiers and a wife's mind frame.
I personally went through a two year deployment when my husband was sent to Iraq and some of these written emotions were spot on!! While I never felt the sting of death in the military nor did my husband come home messed up, I could certainly relate to the loneliness and worry that is associated with a deployed solider.
Narration
The narration for this book was pretty awesome, due to the fact that Cassandra had a very likable voice. Her voice tones and changes for characters transitioned very well and her voice was even haunting during some of the more serious stories like Leave and Remission. I thought this book was perfect for an audio due to the short story line-up. Each story was an hour or a little more and worked well splitting the CD over the course of a week so I could listen to one story a day. I enjoyed this novel so much, I would for sure recommend this to anyone wanting to try out an audio edition.
Rating
You Know When the Men are Gone is recommended to adult readers and contains: Violence, mild sexuality, language, Iraq War situations, marital relationships, deployments and military life.

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34.10/300 Hours

I can't even imagine being a military wife, I don't know that I could do it, I would have an ulcer for sure. I love that each story in this one focuses on a different aspect of this lifestyle, and therefore paints a more complex picture of their lives as a whole. Lovely review Tina!
ReplyDeleteI definitely need to read this one. I, too, can't imagine having to be apart from my spouse for that long or experiencing that whole lifestlye. Great review.
ReplyDeleteCool. Your library has audio downloads?! I wish my local library would get with the times and offer that stuff.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing a bit about your personal experience. There is just something about knowing that the situations and emotions were spot on. It just makes the story more compelling.
5/5 must be good! It is always great to read a book where you can relate and you can go I know exactly how they feel.
ReplyDeleteI really want to read some audio books. They are really expensive over here in Australia and my local library doesn't have many. I am very jealous.
@Nic- I wonder if Audible.com would work for you? Thats the site I use and then just download on my ipod if my library does not have the download. I will have to mail you one of my audios....I will be on the lookout for a YA...:D
ReplyDeleteWow. Sounds fantastic. I bet I would love this on audio.
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